LOVE: The Perfect Bond of Unity

LOVE: The Perfect Bond of Unity  

The Apostle Paul deeply loved and had great concern for other followers of Jesus in the fledgling first-century church. He wrote many letters of encouragement and instruction to those who were young in the faith.

In Paul’s letter to the house church in Colossae he reminded the members of their life-changing experience in Christ Jesus when he said, “If then you were raised with Christ, seek those things which are above, where Christ is, sitting at the right hand of God. Set your mind on things above not on things on the earth” (Colossians 3:1-2 NKJV).

He then exhorts them to rid themselves of sins and vices unbecoming of Jesus and His character. The next few verses list several “do nots” and then he transitions to point out some Christ-like virtues, we should strive to attain.

Paul had been informed of issues which were causing division among the members. He had addressed some of those matters earlier in his letter. Now in Colossians Chapter 3, he was speaking about personal relationships among the believers.

Have you seen or experienced disagreements or personality clashes within your church fellowship? I dare say that if the congregation was made up of human beings, your answer is, “Yes.”  

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Paul gave some directives to help elevate all the members and to bring the unity desired by God Himself. Paul wrote, “Therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, put on tender mercies, kindness, humility, meekness, longsuffering; bearing with one another, and forgiving one another, if anyone has a complaint against another; even as Christ forgave you, so you also must do. But above all these things put on love, which is the bond of perfection. And let the peace of God rule in your hearts, to which also you were called in one body; and be thankful” (Colossians 3:12-15 NKJV).

In another version, verse 14 states: “And beyond all these things put on love, which is the perfect bond of unity” (Colossians 3:14 NASV).

God’s command for us to love is paramount in His cosmic plan for Mankind. 

When asked for the greatest commandment, Jesus answered, “The first of all the commandments is: ‘Hear, O Israel, the Lord our God, the Lord is one. And you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your mind, and with all your strength. ’This is the first commandment. And the second, like it, is this: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ There is no other commandment greater than these” (Mark 12:29-31 NKJV).

Why did Paul say that love is above all other things? It’s because love is the bond of perfection. It is the bond of unity.

Bond is a strong word used to describe one thing being fused to another—thus joined securely. To love one another in this way is to be joined together unconditionally. This agap̵é love is spiritual and selfless, sacrificial and unconditional. 

It is through the grace given by the Holy Spirit that a person can have this kind of love and this is why the world (those who are not in Christ) does not understand it.

The word, unity, in Greek, is defined, “perfect, one who reaches a goal. Perfection or perfectness, completeness.”¹

So, can you see how agap̵é love among the members of a church fellowship, and among followers of Jesus in the body of Christ as a whole, can be such a force—a bond—that unifies and perfects?

Let’s ponder this love that is put into our hearts by God and imagine how it really could bring unity in the body of Christ. Would the church represent Christ well? Would the church attract more non-Christians? Would this church accomplish great things in the building up of the body of Christ? I believe we would agree that the answer to each of these questions would be a resounding, “Yes!”

As we grow in Christ-likeness we will grow in His kind of love for others.

Please join with me in prayer:

Lord God, I ask that You help me to love like Jesus loves. Even when I don’t see eye to eye with my brothers and sisters, help me to give way to Your Spirit to override my personal feelings and allow agapé love to spring up out of my heart—love that is genuine and unconditional. In this, I am doing my part to nurture the perfect bond of unity in the body of Christ. Thank You, Father, for the power of Your grace working in me. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

©Copyright 2019 Connie Wohlford

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1. The Hebrew-Greek Key Word Study Bible, 2008, AMG Publishers, Chattanooga, TN, page 2290.

Why do people want to steer me away from truth?

Why do people want to steer me away from truth?

Again and again, people want to steer me away from God’s truth? Why?!

A few days ago, as I was selling my Christian children’s books at a market, a man suggested I read the works of a 19th philosopher, known for art and literature and who was admired for his spiritually enlightened insights. 

Here I am, selling my books at a market.

The fellow, who made the suggestion, was apparently enamored by the philosopher whose name he put before me. I had never heard the name before, though I had heard of one of his books which had been touted by some subculture followers of the sixties and seventies. No, I won’t say the philosopher’s name because we could insert any number of names—some well-known and some obscure.  

Curious about this man from history, whose works I’ve been missing out on, I looked him up. I learned that he was relatively popular and has been quoted by famous people in speeches and songs in recent decades.

Though raised a Christian, he became influenced by Islam and various mystical religions upon reaching adulthood. This has been a common occurrence throughout history and is much the same these days. I know people who’ve experienced being reared in Christianity, and as young adults striking out to find “a better way.”

After my conversation with the man at the market, I asked myself, “Now, why did he even get into that topic with me? I was innocently trying to sell my books.” 

I then recalled our conversation:

He asked, “How did you get into writing these books?”

Me: “I first wrote the stories for my grandchildren and felt led to get them into print for others to enjoy and learn from. I love to study the Bible and would like to see my grandchildren and others become interested in knowing what the Bible says.”

(There it is! I told him I love to study the Bible, therefore he wanted to help me out by encouraging me in the sphere of philosophy and religion.)

He: “Have you ever read the works of _______ ______?”

Me: “No, I don’t think so.”

He: “Well you should. I think you’d enjoy him. He was a great writer and literary person. Here, I’ll write down his name for you.”

My helpful new acquaintance proceeded to pull out a tablet and write down the name of his apparent hero along with a brief quote for which the hero is known.

I politely took the paper and subsequently checked him out. To tell you the truth I found pretty much what I expected because this kind of thing has happened before. I discovered yet another popular Gnostic-style religious master, similar to individuals the early church contended with in the first century. These false teachers and false prophets come along each and every century and will continue to do so until the blast of the last trumpet.

It’s certainly not the first time I’ve experienced such encounters. Those of us who know that Jesus is the way, the truth and the life and that no one comes to the Father but by Him are often confronted by well-meaning, but misguided individuals who want more for us. (Sigh!)

If they only knew! If they only knew Jesus like I know Jesus, they wouldn’t consider a need for something more, or greater—a more esoteric level of truth, or some other gobbledygook! 

In his letters to the first century church and to his protégé, Timothy, Paul warned about false teachers and false prophets seeking to disrupt and lead astray inexperienced church members. Some examples are found in 2 Cor. 11:13-15; 1 John 4:1; 2 Tim. 4:3-4; Col 2:8.

I especially like his warning in Colossians: “See to it that no one takes you captive through philosophy and empty deception, according to the tradition of men, according to the elementary principles of the world, rather than according to Christ” (Colossians 2:8 NASV).

I am confident that nothing will dissuade me from Jesus, the only Son of the Living God, my own personal Savior. But what about you? What about your children—my own children and grandchildren?

I know my confidence comes from getting to know my God thought Bible reading and study and through a consistent prayer life, as well as being connected to a local church fellowship.

If you are not totally sold-on—sold-out—convinced that Jesus is indeed the way, the truth and the life and that no one comes to the Father except through Him and through Him alone, then I beg you to get into God’s Word seriously! Ask the Holy Spirit to be your Helper and let God’s truths wash over you, your mind and your spirit. Let it teach you and refresh you every day of your life.

Don’t be distracted by worldly philosophies no matter how good they sound and no matter that they even use a portion of scripture to try to draw in God’s elect. We are warned over and over about such threats. Satan is as a wolf in sheep’s clothing and like a lion seeking who he can devour. (Matt. 7:15).

“Beware of the false prophets, who come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly are ravenous wolves.”   

(Matthew 7:15)

Let’s pray for one another, especially for our little ones and those young in the faith. Christian college students are being led astray by false teachers and prophets who stand behind podiums in their classrooms. One reason this is so rampant is that these young adults don’t know why they believe what they were taught at home and church growing up. Many are actually not born-again even though they attended church with their parents for 18 years. They may have never come into a personal relationship with Jesus nor have developed a strong biblical foundation for themselves. 

They don’t know the Word of God! AND their eternal destiny depends on it!

Do you recognize false teachers when they come your way?

Do well-meaning friends and family members encourage you to check out thus and so philosophy or teacher? Please share about it below, if you’d like.

Are you discerning of the source of well-intentioned quotes and banners you may share on Facebook? When we share a quote or cool photo, to some degree we’re promoting whoever originated it. 

I know many may say that, I’m too narrow in my thinking but “I know whom I have believed and am persuaded ...” (2 Timothy 1:12). 

I hope you are also well grounded. If not, begin today to dig in and get to know Jesus better and build your spiritual house on the firm foundation of God’s Word. 

Your comments are welcome. Thanks for stopping by.

©Connie Wohlford 2016

A Greater LOVE

A Greater LOVE

Is love on your mind this week? Are you giddy just thinking about how you’ll express your love to a special someone? Or are you discouraged and lonely because there is no special someone?

If the latter best describes you, take heart and be assured that romantic love is not even the highest level of love. It’s often temporary and can leave a person with a painful hole in their heart.

Jesus brought a greater love to mankind when He gave Himself on the cross.

In Paul’s letters to first century churches he gave instructions on how church members should behave in general and how they should treat one another.

He told the Ephesians, I, therefore, the prisoner of the Lord, beseech you to walk worthy of the calling with which you were called, ² with all lowliness and gentleness, with longsuffering, bearing with one another in love, ³ endeavoring to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace. ⁴ There is one body and one Spirit, just as you were called in one hope of your calling; ⁵ one Lord, one faith, one baptism; ⁶ one God and Father of all, who is above all, and through all, and in you all. ⁷ But to each one of us grace was given according to the measure of Christ’s gift (Ephesians 4:1-7 – NKJV) .

Verses 2-3 in the New Life Version state: Live and work without pride. Be gentle and kind. Do not be hard on others. Let love keep you from doing that. ³ Work hard to live together as one by the help of the Holy Spirit. Then there will be peace.

It takes effort to live in unity as a couple, a family, a church community, or any organization. When we decide not to be hard on others, we are bearing with one another in love. This is a choice.

Note that after Paul’s listing of instructions, he reminded his readers that God gives us each grace. Paul knew they (and we) cannot accomplish the directives in the previous verses without the gift of grace that comes to us from God, by His indwelling Holy Spirit.

Through God’s grace to us, we’re forgiven and accepted into His Kingdom. His grace in us gives us power to bear with one another in love, following Christ’s example. Allowing God’s grace to work in us is a choice.     

In the 5^th chapter of Ephesians, Paul told the followers of Jesus to walk in love after the example of Christ Himself. This is agape, the God kind of love.

After listing several Christ-like attributes in his letter to the Colossians Paul  wrote, And beyond all these things put on love, which is the perfect bond of unity (Colossians 3:14).

Can you see it—love the perfect bond of unity? Love is the superglue which holds a marriage together; holds a family together; holds a church community together; even holds a business together. What other entities can you list which are held together with the bond of love? 

When asked what the greatest commandment is, “Jesus answered, ‘The foremost is, HEAR O ISRAEL! THE LORD OUR GOD IS ONE LORD; “and you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind, and with all your strength.” ³¹The second is this, “You shall love your neighbor as yourself.” There is no other commandment greater than these’” (Mark 12:29-31).

 

 

Three things will last forever−faith, hope, and love−and the greatest of these is love.  

1 Corinthians 13:13

 

Let’s ask God to give us grace to love the way Jesus loved,

letting agape love rule in our hearts and be evident in our actions.

©Connie Wohlford 2016

 

 

 

 

Part 2. A Lamp –The Light Shines in Darkness (6)

Part 2. A Lamp –The Light Shines in Darkness (6)          

We continue with RiSiKiLi−

              God’s Word − Read it, Study it, Know it, Live it.    

Today I want to resume looking at the value of God’s Word, picking up where I left of in my October 27, 2015 post. Today’s post is part 6 as we consider our Bibles being like a lamp, helping us find our way through a dark and treacherous world.

We ended Part 5 looking at Paul’s instructions to his young protégé, Timothy. As you read the following passage, imagine that Paul is talking to you and me. Here we have a good example of God’s Word instructing us through everyday life—as a lamp lighting the way. Also, take note of the term “word of truth.” We can think of our Bibles as The Word of Truth. Paul said,

¹⁵ Work hard so you can present yourself to God and receive his approval. Be a good worker, one who does not need to be ashamed and who correctly explains the word of truth.

¹⁶ Avoid worthless, foolish talk that only leads to more godless behavior. ¹⁷ This kind of talk spreads like cancer, as in the case of Hymenaeus and Philetus. ¹⁸ They have left the path of truth, claiming that the resurrection of the dead has already occurred; in this way, they have turned some people away from the faith.

¹⁹ But God’s truth stands firm like a foundation stone with this inscription: “The Lord knows those who are his,” and “All who belong to the Lord must turn away from evil.” 2 Timothy 2:15-19 NLT

 

This passage, verse 15 in particular, should be especially meaningful to anyone God calls to be a teacher. For the teacher, this verse contains the heart of his or her ministry gift. All believers are to study and understand God’s Word, but the teacher will be held to a higher level of accountability in this regard. Teaching the Holy Scriptures to others is a high privilege and a huge responsibility, not to be taken lightly.

But this does not let those, without the teacher gift/calling, off the hook, because every person has a teacher type influence on someone−our own family members as well as those we encounter in the market place.

Continuing at verse 16, Paul instructs that we should “avoid worthless, foolish talk.” The New International Version says, “Avoid godless chatter” –the New King James Version, “profane and idle babblings.” Instead we should adhere to the Word of Truth. 

How can we do so if we don’t know what is the Word of Truth? Here’s a simplistic example: “Cleanliness is next to godliness.” It seems that a number of people have been told, and believe, that those words are Scripture.  Though good hygiene is a desirable thing, this is not a quote from the Bible. Believing that it is, reflects ignorance of God’s Word.

Here are Jack Hayford comments on 2 Timothy 2:15: “The Bible−God’s inspired Word−is the only conclusive source of wisdom, knowledge, and understanding concerning ultimate realities. It is a fountainhead of freeing truth (John 8:32) and a gold mine of practical principles (Ps. 19:10), waiting to liberate and/or enrich the person who will pursue its truth and wealth.  Thus, Paul’s instruction to “be diligent … a worker” has been applied by serious Christians through the centuries as a directive to study the Word of God. The only way to healthy, balanced living is through the ‘rightly dividing’ (Greek orthotomounta, literally, ‘cutting straight’) of God’s Word. Such correct, straight-on application of God’s Word is the result of diligent study. The test calls us beyond casual approaches to the Scriptures, telling us to refuse to suit the Bible to our own convenience or ideology.”

“In his earlier words (I Tim. 4:13) Paul also told Timothy, ‘Give attention to reading [God’s Word],’ but now he emphasizes studying like a ‘worker’ (from Greek ergon—‘toil, effort’).  Ps. 119:11 urges memorizing of the Word of God as a mighty deterrent against sin. Memorizing the Scripture also provides an immediate availability of God’s ‘words’ as a sword, ready in witnessing and effective in spiritual warfare (Heb. 4:12; Eph. 6:17). (Is. 55:10, 11/ 2 Tim.3:16).”  Jack Hayford, Spirit Filled Life Bible, Kingdom Dynamics, p 1854.

 

In writing his epistle to Timothy, Paul was keenly aware that Timothy needed to study and know God’s Word in order to minister to others and to stand firm against unrighteous temptations and behaviors (2 Timothy 2:22-26). It was imperative that Timothy have this divine illumination guiding his personal life and his ministry. He needed to teach these same principles to others and set a good example, even as a young man. Paul instructed Timothy in effective servant leadership, knowing that this was the example set by Christ, Himself.

   

Truth is found in the Word of God and knowledge of God’s Word will help us stay on God’s virtuous path, illuminating the way, helping us recognize and avoid snares of the devil. As I said in an earlier post the devil, has a plan, or we may call it a plot, for our lives. But following the ways of our Lord, as clearly defined in His Word, will help us avoid his snares and even captivity.    

 

Have you devised a Bible reading/study plan for this New Year? If you want to do so and don’t know where to start, you might learn Jesus. Begin reading the Gospels: Matthew, Mark, Luke and John—then on to Acts. In addition to that, try to read through the book of Proverbs. It has 31 chapters. If you read a chapter a day, you’ve read the whole thing in a month. You might find it stimulating to repeat that each month or every other month.

 

 

On the Internet, Bible Gateway has several Bible reading plans you can take a look at> https://www.biblegateway.com/reading-plans/?version=NIV

 

No matter the plan you choose, start now. It’s okay to start small, but let it be today. One more thing, PRAY—ask God to help you focus and lead you in His Book. You will be causing Him to smile. Go ahead, smile back.

I pray God will bless you richly as you get to know Him better through His Word.