Why
pray daily for our children...
Have you prayed for your children (and grandchildren)
today?
Here are some reasons we should pray daily for the
children in our lives:
1. It’s our responsibility. As parents,
we’re responsible for the spiritual growth of our children. It’s likely that no
one else on the planet will be praying for our child every day. I knew that as
long as my parents were alive and had presence of mind, someone was praying for
me every single day. Though they’re now walking on streets of gold, I still
appreciate that fact.
If you’re a grandparent and/or concerned adult, although
you don’t have the responsibilities of parenting, you can and should still pray
for the children you love, especially if the parents are not followers of
Jesus.
2. Jesus set the example in praying for
children (Matt. 19:13), as well as for His followers. We can read the
account of His prayer for us in John 17:17.
3. We need to set an example for our children. Our
children need to know that prayer is important to us and that we pray for them
daily. Our personal example is our chief teaching tool as we instruct our
children in all spiritual matters.
4. We need to pray that our children will have
revelation understanding of their need for salvation and that Jesus is the
Savior and the only way. Even
young children can comprehend this at a level that makes sense to them. The Holy
Spirit knows how to work in each young spirit.
Growing up in an evangelical church, I knew at a young
age, I needed the salvation that Jesus could give me. At nine years old, I had
been pondering on this for months. I remember trying to mentally list all my
sins which were in need of God’s forgiveness. Then one Sunday I decided it was
time. I walked forward and gave my hand to Pastor Rushing and my heart to
Jesus.
5. There’s a war going on and the lives and
souls of our children are the spoils of that war. In the atmosphere
around us, spiritual warfare is taking place between God’s angels and Satan’s
demons. We and our children are often pawns in their activity. Rest assured,
Satan is real and he wants our children. He desires to steal, kill, and destroy
anyone he can (John 10:10a). That includes you, me, and the children we love.
We can pray with confidence that our Heavenly Father wants our children too. In
the second half of that verse, Jesus said, “I have come that they may have
life, and that they may have it more abundantly” (John 10:10b NKJV). Our
children need to know these things.
6. Pray for wisdom in parenting. Our
role as parent is our most important job. Job—yes—because
it’s work! And when we do it well it
pays great dividends. We’d be hard-pressed to be a great parent without divine
wisdom and intervention. Consistence is key and if you’re like me, and most
others, it takes a lot of effort to be consistent. Help from above is
necessary.
Moses said it well, when he passed God’s instructions on to
the Israelites after God had freed them from Egyptian slavery. Through Moses,
God said, “And it shall be that if you earnestly obey My
commandments which I command you today, to love the Lord
your God and serve Him with all your heart and with all your soul, then I will give you ...” (Deut. 11:13-14q NKJV).
A few verses later, God got
specific about passing the torch of His Word on to the children. “You
shall teach them to your children, speaking of them when you sit in your house,
when you walk by the way, when you lie down, and when you rise up. And you
shall write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates, that your
days and the days of your children may be multiplied in the land of which the Lord swore to your fathers to give them,
like the days of the heavens above the earth. For if you carefully keep all
these commandments which I command you to do—to love the Lord your God, to walk in all His ways,
and to hold fast to Him—” (Deut. 11:19-22 NKJV). I’m sure we all agree that parenting is serious business. It’s a daily responsibility that requires daily invoking the help and power from our Creator. We can be confident that God, loves and wants the best for our children. It’s only with God’s help that we can truly “train up a child in the way he should go” (Prov. 22:6 NKJV).
SO—we need to pray! We need to pray big time—every day—for our children and for ourselves as parents.
I have seen the results of allowing children to figure out spiritual matters for themselves and it’s often not a pretty sight. When we sow to the wind, we often reap the whirlwind (Hosea 8:7a). It’s true that sometimes they find their way to God without parental involvement. Nonetheless, from what I’ve observed with acquaintances, the results of sewing to the wind in regard to a child’s spiritual upbringing has reaped the whirlwind indeed.
The examples I’ve witnessed have reaped addiction, sexual promiscuity and confusion, prison, mental and emotional insecurities, animosity toward God and toward parents, spiritual confusion, and all manner of chaos.
So, let’s pray. Let’s pray every day for our children and grandchildren. Their eternal destiny may depend on it.
A few months ago I began posting a brief daily prayer for children and grandchildren on my Facebook page. I would be honored for you to tune in to these prayers if you’re a Facebook user. Each one makes a good springboard for our appeal to God on behalf of the children in our lives.
Every morning, usually between 6 and 6:30 EST, I post a prayer for children. (If it doesn’t appear, there’s a good reason. I may be in need of prayer, myself. J)
In most of these prayers, I ask God to help the children in some area of spiritual growth. My two sons are in their forties and my grandchildren are teens and preteens. No child is too young or too old to not need prayer.
You can see the prayers on Facebook at this link: https://www.facebook.com/ConnieWohlfordAuthor/ . If you “Like” my page and click on “Sign Up” the post should appear in your own FB News Feed each morning. Besides that, for you to Like my page would be a blessing to me. Thanks in advance!
Back to prayer. Think now—what is your greatest prayer for the children in your life? Tell God, right now. Release it to Him and take heart in knowing He hears! Thank Him and worship Him because He loves, He knows, He cares, and He can work in ways that will astound us.
Your comments are welcome. I and other readers would love to hear of your experiences in praying for children. And we can pray for one another in the family of God.
©Connie
Wohlford 2016
Thank you for the reminder to pray. I keep sections in my prayer binder for each of my children and record the verses and blessings I want to pray over them. It helps keep my prayers focused and fresh--and I can see how God is answering them.
ReplyDeleteLeigh, I love your method. It's beautiful. I hope others will read your comment and incorporate your idea. Thanks so much for sharing.
DeleteI am glad you talked about prayer and spiritual warfare regarding children. I hope to find your prayers for them on your Facebook page! I pray for the kids in my sphere to know and love God, go to church, and respond to His work in their lives. For them to have good, Christian friends. And to follow His path for their lives.
ReplyDeleteGood for you, Katy! We never know if we might be the only person actually praying for certain children. I do hope you'll check out my daily prayers for children on my FB: https://www.facebook.com/ConnieWohlfordAuthor/ Thanks, Katy.
DeleteWhat a great reminder to pray for our children (and children of others in our areas of influence). I'm thankful for the prayers of my mom and grandmother when I was young and even into adulthood. They never stopped praying for me. Thanks for reminding us of how important this is.
ReplyDeleteMe too, Crickett. As long as my parents were alive I knew someone prayed for my every day. I make it a point to tell my grandchildren I'm praying for them. I pray for many other children as well, but I believe we have a responsibility to pray for our children and grandchildren--- "our seed."
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