Is love on your mind this week? Are you giddy just thinking
about how you’ll express your love to a special someone? Or are you discouraged
and lonely because there is no special someone?
If the latter best describes you, take heart and be assured
that romantic love is not even the highest level of love. It’s often temporary
and can leave a person with a painful hole in their heart.
Jesus brought a greater love to mankind when He gave Himself
on the cross.
In Paul’s letters to first century churches he gave
instructions on how church members should behave in general and how they should
treat one another.
He told the Ephesians, I, therefore, the prisoner of the Lord,
beseech you to walk worthy of the calling with which you were called, 2 with
all lowliness and gentleness, with longsuffering, bearing with one another in
love, 3 endeavoring to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond
of peace. 4 There is
one body and one Spirit, just as you were called in one hope of your calling; 5 one
Lord, one faith, one baptism; 6 one God and Father of all, who is above all, and through all, and in
you all. 7 But to each one of us grace was given according to
the measure of Christ’s gift (Ephesians 4:1-7 – NKJV) .
Verses 2-3 in the New Life Version state: Live
and work without pride. Be gentle and kind. Do not be hard on others. Let love
keep you from doing that. 3 Work hard to live together as one
by the help of the Holy Spirit. Then there will be peace.
It takes effort to live in unity as a couple, a family, a
church community, or any organization. When we decide not to be hard on others,
we are bearing with one another in love. This is a choice.
Note that after Paul’s listing of instructions, he reminded
his readers that God gives us each grace. Paul knew they (and we)
cannot accomplish the directives in the previous verses without the gift of
grace that comes to us from God, by His indwelling Holy Spirit.
Through God’s grace to us, we’re forgiven and accepted into
His Kingdom. His grace in us gives us power to bear with one another in love,
following Christ’s example. Allowing God’s grace to work in us is a choice.
In the 5th chapter of Ephesians, Paul told the
followers of Jesus to walk in love after the example of
Christ Himself. This is agape, the
God kind of love.
After listing several Christ-like attributes in his letter
to the Colossians Paul wrote, And beyond all these things put on love, which is the perfect
bond of unity (Colossians 3:14).
Can you see it—love
the perfect bond of unity? Love is the superglue which holds a marriage
together; holds a family together; holds a church community together; even
holds a business together. What other entities can you list which are held
together with the bond of love?
When
asked what the greatest commandment is, “Jesus answered, ‘The foremost is, HEAR O
ISRAEL! THE LORD OUR GOD IS ONE LORD; “and you shall love the Lord your God with all your
heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind, and with all your
strength.”
31The second is this, “You
shall love your neighbor as yourself.” There
is no other commandment greater than these’” (Mark
12:29-31).
Three
things will last forever−faith, hope, and love−and the greatest of these is
love.
1
Corinthians 13:13
Let’s ask God to give us grace to love the way Jesus
loved,
letting agape love rule in our hearts and be evident in our actions.
©Connie
Wohlford 2016
Thank you for the reminder that God's love is the greatest form of love. It definitely is HIS love that holds a marriage and family together. Happy Valentine's Day, Connie! I hope it's a special one.
ReplyDeleteThanks for stopping by and for your comment, Katy. You have a Happy Valentine's Day as well.
DeleteI'm so thankful for God's agape love. Jesus is the example for us of how to love others--grace filled love is truly what binds us together.
ReplyDeleteYes, indeed, Leigh. Thanks for your comment.
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