Have you ever given up on
someone?
Have you declared, “Oh, I give up!”?
Has someone said to you, “You’ll
never change!”?
This week I watched God show
that He never gives up on people. No matter the sin; no matter the darkness; no
matter the misery one chooses for oneself, God will relentlessly pursue people.
A dear man, whom I’ve known
all my life, passed into Eternity earlier this week. In the days leading up to
his death I sat or stood by his hospital bed along with his wife, mother, and
sister.
Just hours before his death,
tears trickled down my cheeks as I watched and listened to him struggle to
muster enough strength to tell his 90 year old mother he was sorry for the
years of worry, anguish, and sorrow he had caused her. He could barely say,
“I’m sorry.”
She assured him that she had
never stopped loving him and had never stopped praying for him. God heard every
prayer and every heart cry.
This once young, tall, and
very handsome man now lay in a weakened body, ravaged by years of fast living, abuse,
and addiction.
This once brilliant mind now
turned his thoughts to regret, sorrow, and yes−repentance.
That word, repentance,
is the operative word in his situation. In recent years, as his body was
failing, this man saw that his end was not far off. He turned his heart back to
his Heavenly Father.
And God was there. He’d been
there all along—always in relentless pursuit because He wants none to parish in
an eternity of torment and hopelessness.
The Lord is not slow about his promise, as
some think of slowness, but is patient with you, not wanting any to
perish, but all to come to repentance. 2 Peter 3:9 NRSV
The morning after the small
memorial, as I prayed for the family and his three scattered adult children,
God gently reminded me that He never gives up on people. He had never given up
on this man and He will not give up on the children who hardly knew their
father.
Have you ever feared that
God has given up on you? Or, have you feared He has given up on someone you
love? That fear is groundless in light of God’s Promises and Covenants.
Don’t give up. Know that God
hears your prayers and sees your tears. As long as there’s life, there’s hope. HOPE
for redemption.
That’s our other operative word—Redemption.
Jesus’ work on the cross
canceled the debt of sin for anyone who would believe and receive Him. We each owed a debt we couldn’t pay SO Jesus
paid that debt He didn’t owe−thus REDEMPTION. We only need to believe
and receive.
My sacrifice, O God, is a
broken spirit; a
broken and contrite heart you,
God, will not despise.
Psalm 51:17
Photo by Elijah Hail |
If
you’re the prodigal, don’t delay another moment. Don’t cause another tear to
run down the cheek of your anguished loved one.
Turn
to your Heavenly Father. He has not given up on you. He’s not mad at you. His
love is never-ending and ever-reaching. Talk to Him now.
©Connie
Wohlford
I love this post, Connie! I cling to 2 Peter 3:9 as I pray for many who have never accepted Jesus or who have strayed. Praise God that His love and patience is beyond our understanding!
ReplyDeleteI do too, Sherry. It is certainly God's desire that NONE perish in Hell for eternity. Thanks for your comment. I'm glad you liked the post.
DeleteThank you for sharing this story. I pray that God's grace would be with that family. Thank you for your message of hope and urgency to turn to God.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Katy. I'm glad to say the family is doing pretty well. We often get so busy, we fail to realize the urgency of the days we live in.
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